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Claws of the Critics
By Comicality
So, you've written out your first
story, you feel good about it, and you've finally gotten up the
courage to put it out there for the rest of the world to see.
It's an amazing feeling, isn't it? This is, afterall, your baby!
Your brainchild. The true expression of your emotions and your
very soul. And all you want is a little feedback from the public
to say, "Wow! We really liked what you wrote! Thanks so much!
I hope to see more from you!" Sometimes, those email come
to your inbox, and make you feel like you're floating on air.
And then....other times...dun dun dun! You get the abrasive howl
of the critic in your inbox, and it feels more like you're drowning
in quicksand. Prepare yourself for it. It's going to happen no
matter what. And it's not always as bad as you think it is. It
may feel awful sometimes, but in the long run...you have to look
at it as an essential part of expressing what's in your heart.
Those are the rules, plain and simple.
Just remember, doing ANYTHING creative is going
to bring forth some level of criticism or interpretation. Bottom
line. I don't care WHAT you do! You can sit at home all alone,
and spend ten years writing the most amazing, most emotionally
driven, most draining, story of your entire LIFE. You can have
it edited by the finest editors in the business, fix EVERY spelling
error, research EVERY fact and reference, and correct EVERY continuity
mix up that could POSSIBLY exist. You can channel divine spirits
and gather the wisdom of ancient alien civilizatons to form an
airtight foundation in logic that dazzles the greatest philosophers
of your time. You can work yourself into a COMA, losing sleep,
losing friends and family, not eating or drinking, in complete
solitude on an uncharted deserted island in the middle of the
Pacific ocean...JUST trying to find a way to draw the life's BLOOD
from your wrists to get the words out on the page for everyone
to see your masterpiece! And through all of your tireless efforts,
there will *STILL* be someone out there who will find SOME offbeat
reason SOMEWHERE in the story to say, "Eh...I didn't like
it." Hehehe, you can't avoid it, don't even try. I hate to
burn down any images of what you think it'll be like to have folks
reading your story, but it's the truth. Trust me, there are NO
'unanimous votes' in this game. They just don't exist. What's
important is that you read all of the comments and feedback that
you get with every story, and understand what they are all trying
to say...without losing your enthusiasm to move forward with another
chapter or story. That's the key.
I know that it can make you feel really bad sometimes
to hear that someone disliked something that you worked so hard
on. Writing is a long and frustrating process sometimes, and without
some positive responses, it's hard to put yourself through that
kind of punishment. But when you see criticisms or constructive
comments about your work, make sure that you read through them,
and try to understand what kind of points they're making. While
certain rants may seem harsh or inappropiate, if you get to the
heart of their comments....you might find some really good points
that might help you to work harder towards making your next chapter
even better. The hard part is simply not taking the criticisms
to heart, and letting them discourage you from writing entirely.
I know, I know....easier said than done. But, like I said, the
criticisms WILL come...and you want to be ready. Don't think about
the comments as 'faults and flaws'. Try to think of it as 'attention'.
Someone likes what you wrote enough to want to write to you and
let you know what they think. They want the best story that they
can get out of you, and if they're sending you a note, you must
have touched them on SOME level to illicit a response. Am I right?
Take a moment, and even if their suggestions seem petty or unfounded,
make sure that you take a second look at your own work and try
to see if you can understand why they felt that way. Remember,
it's easy to develop this 'unconditional love' for what you've
written, and it can make you blind to some of the comments that
someone is making to improve what you're trying to do with the
story. Take a moment to calm down, and just give your story a
once over to see if maybe there were a few corners that you could
have touched up in the writing. It will ultimately help you to
become a better writer in the long run if you're able to look
at your own work objectively.
However, another important thing to remember is
that YOU, ultimately, are the author of this story. This is your
work, your heart, your memories, and your world. So stick to your
instincts i you think what you're doing is right. I would never
tell any of you to change your whole story around to meet the
needs of a few critics. Don't EVER do that. Because you won't
ever be able to please everybody, and chances are, you'll end
up losing the majority of people who liked the story just fine
when you were writing it 'your' way. Make sure that you're still
writing the story that YOU want to write. People are there with
you, they're reading, they're listening, and they love what you
do. Even if the critics rant and rave and threaten to walk away
and throw tantrums...if you want the story to go a certain way,
and you believe in it, then you let your art thrive and grow however
you want it to. That was the whole reason behind writng it, right?
Understand, there are a lot of people out there who will get personally
involved with your work, and will want to 'advise' and 'guide'
and sometimes 'force' the story to be written the way that THEY
would like it to be written. But that's not your job in all this.
If they wanted a story written JUST to suit them specifically
and have it written with the kind of precision that they're demanding
from you, then they should have to go through the emotional frustration
and the long hours of mind numbing effort that it takes to write
their OWN story. This one is YOURS, and you can make it into whatever
you believe or dream it to be. Always keep in mind that this is
not a story that you are WRITING for other people. This is a story
that you chose to SHARE with other people. Don't let the critics
barge in and take control of your means of self expression. Stick
to your guns and push forward. The true fans of your story will
enjoy what YOU have to say a lot more.
So, when reading a criticism or a flame from someone
who didn't like your story, make sure that you dettach yourself
enough to see whatever points they're making...but keep your integrity,
and let your heart guide you instead of the folks who might not
understand the story the way you do. It's a difficult balance
sometimes, I know. I've been there many times myself. But it's
all a part of developing a natural instinct in doing what you
want to do. You examine each comment, take to heart whatever you
find useful, brush off everything you find insulting or misunderstood,
and KEEP WRITING! Don't ever let a bad comment ruin your enthusiasm
for something you enjoy. Most of the time, the critics don't even
mean it to sound as badly as you took it. (Of course, sometimes
they DO! Hehehe! But that's a whole other situation. Like I said
before, it's 'attention' that they're giving you. And you wouldn't
have it if your story didn't have some kind of significant impact
on them) Most of the time, when I write back an email to explain
my reasons for doing what I did or to thank someone for pointing
something out to me that I didn't realize before, they usually
write back to say, "But I DID enjoy the story a lot!"
So don't take it as 'I hated everything', because it's not always
like that.
As for the critics out there, please keep in mind
that any kind of art or creative expression really demands that
an artist 'expose' himself on a very deep level. That makes them
extremely vulnerable to what you might say about their work. Saying
things like 'that was just stupid' or 'ewwww sick' or 'I hated
this part or this character' can cut a pretty deep gash into somebody
if phrased wrong. A lot of people take that to heart, this is
their spirit. And even with ten emails from people saying that
they loved the story...it only takes 'ONE' bad comment to discourage
another attempt at putting their work out there again. Writing
is NOT easy. Not by a longshot. Writing just ONE story takes a
TON of planning and typing and heart and creativity to put together.
Not to mention the courage it takes to let people read it when
it's done. Don't be fooled by the fact that because it only takes
ten minutes to read, that it only took ten minutes to write. That's
never the case. These authors have really manifested something
special out of their very souls, and have taken a great risk to
put it out there to be judged and criticized by people they don't
even know. So take it easy on them, huh? You have no IDEA how
hard it is to put these feelings down on paper sometimes.
We all definitely need your honest input to help
us get better, and we want you to tell us if you don't understand
what's being written...but our hearts are on our sleeves here.
So be careful, k?
To you authors, expect the claws to come scratching
at your back eventually. The 'beast' is always going to be chasing
you for as long as you want to do anything imaginative in your
life. Hehehe! But don't just hide out from what the critics are
trying to tell you. Don't turn a deaf ear to someone who's trying
to help you. Many times, it's something you need to reach that
next level in your writing. So pay attention, and keep your head.
We can all use a little 'back scratching' every now and then.
:)
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